Who Should You Take Advice From?
Summary
- The most important factor for your long-term financial success is the group of people you compare yourself to, not necessarily those you spend the most time with.
- When making major life decisions, talk to people who have relevant experience and whose lives you aspire to not just those closest to you.
- It can feel lonely because few around you might understand your goals, so think of guiding figures like Warren Buffett or religious figures if that helps.
- Consider what the best version of yourself would do in a situation, and seek advice from those aligned with your goals.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest implementing the idea of choosing your reference group carefully. Identify five people you admire and whose success or qualities you want to emulate. They don’t need to be people you know directly; they could be successful leaders, like Warren Buffett, or figures from history. By observing their decisions and behaviors, you can set a higher benchmark for your own growth.
Another good way of making decisions is seeking advice from those who've achieved what you aspire to. When faced with important life choices, reach out to mentors or think about what successful people would do in your situation. If you don’t have direct access to a mentor, use books, podcasts, or online courses to gather insights. This doesn't require a significant time or money investment and can vastly improve your decision-making process.
Think about what the best version of yourself would do. Ask yourself, "What would the ideal me do in this scenario?" This helps align your actions with your long-term goals, minimizing regrets.
Finally, if you're feeling isolated because those around you don’t understand your goals, don't be discouraged. Use this time for introspection and seek virtual communities or online forums where like-minded people gather. This can provide both inspiration and practical advice, fostering a sense of belonging and support.
