We married for business…the TRUTH about what happened next..
Summary
- I've been receiving inquiries regarding my views on being an alpha or powerful woman in a relationship, so I wanted to address this with my husband Alex.
- Our relationship is built on what works for us, and there's no right or wrong way to have a relationship; different dynamics work for different people.
- It took self-reflection to realize that I previously dated more passive men out of a desire for control, which is an illusion and can lead to resentment.
- In my relationship with Alex, it was initially uncomfortable due to his strong personality, but I learned to value a partner who challenges me and inspires me.
- Power in a relationship is non-binary and exists on a continuum; having a more powerful partner can help maintain a healthy balance of masculine and feminine energies.
- Relationships should be grounded in respect and trust. For example, Alex and I shared bank accounts shortly after meeting, demonstrating our immediate trust.
- A power couple dynamic requires that both individuals are powerful in their own right.
- Decisions in a relationship can be divided based on each person's interests and strengths; not all decisions need to involve both parties equally.
- Our marriage functions similarly to our business, with clear divisions of decision-making responsibilities and a guiding principle of full agreement before proceeding with major decisions.
- Maintaining clear professional boundaries at work is vital when working with a spouse to ensure comfort and professionalism in the work environment.
- Maintaining a united front publicly sustains mutual respect within a working team, especially when working with a spouse.
- A strong relationship can help develop personal skills that benefit other areas of life, such as leadership in business.
- It's important to find a partner who shares the same vision and ambitions, which makes for a more fulfilling and aligned relationship.
- Being a powerful couple or a power couple doesn't preclude maintaining domestic roles and gestures of care, which I enjoy as part of the relationship's personal dynamic.
- A successful relationship contains both rational and emotional elements, providing a sturdy foundation for the relationship through various seasons of life.
- People's characteristics can converge in a relationship, leading to a more unified approach in both business and personal interactions.
- Delegating roles in a relationship is not about dependency; it's about efficiency and capitalizing on each person's strengths to achieve more together.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest looking at your relationships, both personal and professional, with a fresh perspective. Think about the qualities you truly value in a partner or team member. Look for people who not only inspire you but also align with your vision and ambition.
A good way of doing things is to try and balance your strengths and weaknesses with those of your partners. When you're working together, focusing on what each person does best can make you more efficient and successful.
It's important to have trust and respect as the foundation of any relationship, especially if you share financial responsibilities or make important life decisions together. Sharing a bank account like Alex and I did, for example, showed our trust in each other right away.
If you work with your partner or spouse, make sure you keep your work life and home life separate. At work, treat each other with the same professionalism you would any other colleague.
Remember that power in a relationship isn't just about dominating; it's about complementing each other's strengths. It's also okay to maintain traditional roles and gestures of affection at home if that's what makes you happy.
Finally, communication is key. Be honest and open with each other, especially when it comes to making decisions. If there's no agreement, wait until you both see eye to eye. This helps maintain a united front and respect, especially in front of your colleagues or team.
If the relationship is bringing out the best in both of you and helping you grow as individuals, then you're probably heading in the right direction. Keep building on that trust, respect, and shared vision!
Quotes
"There's always things that work, what we're talking about is what works for us"
– Leila Hormozi
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"I made this post basically saying that an alpha female needs an alpha male"
– Leila Hormozi
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"Look for what you want a partner out of not fear or desperation but out of inspiration"
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"If you want to be a quote power couple then both people must have power"
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"If we both don't agree, we don't move forward"
– Leila Hormozi
