This Is Why You Feel Like An Imposter
Summary
- I often talk with entrepreneurs who struggle with imposter syndrome.
- The key to overcoming imposter syndrome is to stop lying and be truthful.
- For example, an agency owner with 150 clients felt like a fraud because he didn't know how to run his business.
- He only knew how to get customers, not how to operate the business effectively.
- I advised him to be honest about his strengths and weaknesses.
- By stating the facts and telling the truth, you can avoid feeling like an imposter.
- You feel like a fraud when you make claims about things that haven't happened yet or pretend to be something you're not.
Video
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z3UiLczPPIE
How To Take Action
I would suggest implementing a few straightforward strategies that can help you overcome imposter syndrome and operate more effectively in your business or personal growth journey.
First, be honest with yourself and others. A good way of doing this is to clearly state your current skills and areas where you need improvement. For instance, if you’re great at getting customers but struggle with operational management, simply say so. Transparency can help you feel more authentic and reduce the stress of pretending.
Another key step is to focus on your strengths while acknowledging your weaknesses. This makes you more relatable and trustworthy. People appreciate honesty and it makes you feel less like a fraud. For example, if asked about your business, you might say, “I’ve successfully brought in many customers, but I’m still learning the ropes of day-to-day operations.”
Next, seek out resources or mentors who can help you grow in the areas where you feel less confident. Joining a mastermind group or finding an experienced mentor doesn’t have to be costly and can provide valuable insight and guidance.
Lastly, regularly reflect on your progress. Keep a simple journal where you record your achievements and areas you’re improving. This can be a powerful reminder of how far you’ve come and where you’re headed, reinforcing your confidence and combating feelings of fraudulence.
By implementing these low-cost, high-value strategies, you can start feeling more genuine and secure in your capabilities, whether you're running a business or working on personal growth.
