The Most Powerful Influence

Summary

• When you want attention in a relationship, how you act matters. If crying and whining works, you might keep doing it, but if it pushes someone away, you'll likely stop if you value the relationship.
• Your behavior can change depending on who you spend time with. If your friends don't approve of something, like getting blacked out, you're less likely to do it because you don't want to lose those friends.
• The people and environment around us can greatly influence our actions and decisions. It's important to be aware of this when making choices about who we interact with and where we spend our time.

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How To Take Action

I would suggest thinking about who you spend time with and the places you go to. Just like in a relationship, if you want good results, your actions should be good too. If you act in a way that makes people happy, they'll want to be around you more. So if you're starting a business or trying to grow as a person, act in ways that bring you closer to your goals.

Changing a small thing in how you act can make a big difference. For example, if you want to be healthier, hang out with friends who like to eat good food and exercise. You'll probably start doing those things too because you want to fit in and keep your friends. This doesn't cost money or take a lot of time.

Here's what you can do:

• Look at who you hang out with. Are they the kind of people who are where you want to be? If not, find new friends who match your goals.
• Think about where you spend your time. Is it helping you get better? Choose places that make you want to be your best self.
• Pay attention to how your friends react to what you do. If they don't like something and it's important to you, try doing it less or find a better way to do it.

Remember, your environment and the people in it have power over what you do. Use that power to help you get what you want.

Quotes

"If she wants the boyfriend more than she wants to cry and wine, she will learn to not cry and wine anymore"

– Leila Hormozi

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"I think outside circumstances have so much more power over us than we think"

– Leila Hormozi