The Early Days Are The Hardest
Summary
- My first gym was located underneath a parking garage, which was noisy and not ideal for sleeping due to cars and partying college students above.
- I moved across the country to Huntington Beach, where I knew no one, making the experience even more isolating.
- For the first six months, I couldn't sleep properly and survived mostly on naps.
- Homeless individuals often slept in the parking lot, which added to the stress as I had to ask them to leave.
- I slept on astroturf in the gym with just a blanket and a pillow.
- The hardships felt like enduring a long marathon, similar to a Rocky montage that lasts seconds in a movie but years in real life.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest implementing a mindset of resilience and persistence, just like I did when I started my first gym. No matter how tough things get, keep pushing through. Remember, it’s like a Rocky montage, but in real life, it takes much longer.
A good way of doing this is by setting small, achievable goals each day. Break down your big goals into smaller tasks so each day feels like a win. This keeps you motivated over the long "marathon" period.
Consider creating a positive environment, even in less than ideal spaces. Use what you have and make it work. I slept on astroturf with a blanket in my gym because I didn’t have another option. Find simple ways to make your space comfortable, which can help reduce stress.
Building relationships is crucial, especially if you move to a new area. Like when I moved and knew no one, focus on networking. Attend local events or join community groups to connect with others. This can help you feel less isolated and could open doors for your business.
Also, prioritize rest and manage your time efficiently. I survived on naps those first few months, but you can find a better balance by scheduling breaks and proper sleep. This will improve your productivity and well-being.
Lastly, don't be afraid to ask for help when needed. Whether it's moving homeless individuals from your space or seeking advice, it's okay to reach out. This will ensure you can focus on growing and improving steadily.
