POV: You’re building a business with your spouse

Summary

• When you get a taste of something new, it's important to figure out what you really like about it.
• I always spend time thinking about what makes me excited or happy when I try something for the first time.
• Even if I don't believe in something bigger, I find value in looking up to people who help me learn and grow.
• It's okay if you don't have the same beliefs as others; you can still respect the good things they bring into your life.
• When someone is important to you or helps you, let them know they matter. This makes relationships stronger.
• I remind myself that everyone is looking for meaning in different ways, and that's normal.
• When I try something new, I always pay close attention to how it makes me feel, so I can learn from the experience and know what to look for next time.

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How To Take Action

I would suggest implementing a habit of checking in with yourself whenever you try something new, whether it’s a business idea, a daily routine, or even a new connection. After you experience something, take a few minutes to notice what parts made you feel happy, excited, or motivated. Write these feelings down, even if it’s just a quick note on your phone. This helps you get clear on what actually matters to you and what direction to follow.

A good way of doing this is to keep a simple journal where you record these moments. Over time, you’ll notice patterns that show what truly excites you—this is useful for making personal or business decisions.

Even if you don’t share the same beliefs as someone else, look for the qualities in them that inspire you. For example, if you admire how a mentor problem-solves or leads others, focus on those actions, not on whether you agree with their full worldview. This lets you gain value without having to fit perfectly with their ideas.

Whenever someone supports or teaches you, tell them that you appreciate it. A quick message or thank-you note can really deepen your relationships and make people want to help you again in the future. This simple action doesn’t cost anything and pays off big over time.

Finally, keep in mind that everyone’s searching for meaning in different ways. Accepting that can help you be more understanding, both with yourself and others, which builds stronger personal and business relationships.