Jealousy Is Actually Good?
Summary
- When I feel jealous of someone, it's because I admire something they have.
- Jealousy isn't necessarily bad; it can be a source of inspiration for me.
- I try to become friends with people I'm jealous of because I want to learn from them.
- It's important to be selective about who I share my goals with.
- I share my goals with individuals who I believe can help me achieve them, not with those who might discourage me.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest using jealousy as a positive tool. If you find yourself feeling jealous of someone, think about what they have that you want. Instead of feeling bad, try to become friends with them or connect with them. This way, you can learn how to achieve similar success. Remember, jealousy can be a sign of admiration, and it can inspire you to grow.
A good way of protecting your dreams is to be careful who you share your goals with. You should share your ambitions only with people who can help you reach them. Look for friends or mentors who encourage you and can offer useful advice. Avoid telling your plans to people who may not understand your vision or might discourage you.
Here's how you can put this advice into action:
- Make a list of qualities or achievements you admire in others that make you feel jealous.
- Reach out to people who have what you want. Ask them for advice or if they'd be willing to mentor you.
- Create a support circle by choosing friends or colleagues you trust and who believe in your abilities. Only share your goals with this group.
- Set small goals that bring you closer to what you admire in others. Celebrate your progress along the way.
- Reflect on situations when you feel jealousy and turn those feelings into motivation for your personal growth.
Remember, it's about using feelings of jealousy as stepping stones to learn and better yourself while keeping your goals protected by sharing them with the right people.
Quotes
"I want something they have, I want to be friends with that person"
– Leila Hormozi
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"Why would I not want to learn from people how to get what they have"
– Leila Hormozi
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"I don't look at it as a bad thing or negative"
– Leila Hormozi
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"I actually think it's inspiration"
– Leila Hormozi
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"Be careful who you tell your goals to"
– Leila Hormozi
