“It’s Because I’m a Woman…”
Summary
- When I started my business at 23, I had never built one before and faced numerous challenges.
- It's easy to blame outside factors, like being a woman, for why people might not respect you.
- Blaming things you can't control, like gender, isn't useful or productive.
- Instead, focus on what you can control to earn respect, such as improving your skills and experience.
- Owning my shortcomings, whether in management, communication, or setting boundaries, led to personal growth.
- Sometimes, the reason people don't respect you isn't your gender; you might need more experience or skills.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest implementing a mindset shift to help you focus on what you can control. Start each day by identifying one skill you want to improve. This could be as simple as learning a new software tool, improving your communication skills, or setting better boundaries.
A good way of doing this is by setting small, achievable goals. If you're an entrepreneur facing challenges in management, look for free online resources or webinars focused on management skills. Many platforms offer high-quality content for free.
Owning your shortcomings is another crucial step. Write down the areas you struggle with, whether it’s management, communication, or boundary-setting. By acknowledging these, you can actively work on them. For example, if you have trouble setting boundaries, practice saying no in low-risk situations to build confidence.
Track your progress. Keep a journal where you note what you've worked on and the improvements you've seen. This helps you stay motivated and provides a clear picture of your development over time.
Seek feedback from those around you. Ask your team, friends, or mentors for constructive criticism. This will give you insights that you might not have considered and help you grow faster.
Lastly, don’t let things you can't control, like outside perceptions, hold you back. Focus your energy on actions that are within your control. This approach not only boosts your skill level but also naturally earns you the respect you're seeking.
