I’m Not Going Home For The Holidays
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Summary
- I don't go home for the holidays because family often sees me as I used to be, not who I am now.
- People tend to hold on to past perceptions, and it can take just as long to change these perceptions as it did to form them.
- When people say "he changed," I consider it a good thing. Change means growth, and who wants to be the same person they were at 15 forever?
- It's sometimes better to surround yourself with people who know and appreciate the current version of you, rather than trying to change old perceptions.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest embracing the idea of change as growth. Recognize that people change, and that's a good thing. Reflect on how you've changed over the years and celebrate those improvements. This mindset will help you focus on becoming a better version of yourself.
A good way of doing this is by surrounding yourself with people who appreciate who you are now. Spend time with friends and colleagues who recognize and encourage your growth. They can motivate you to keep evolving and not be anchored to the past.
To implement these ideas in a low-cost way, set boundaries with people who hold onto old perceptions of you. Politely communicate your growth and maybe limit interactions that don't support your current journey.
Consider documenting your progress. Write down your personal and professional goals, and track your achievements. This can help you see how far you've come and give you confidence in maintaining positive transformation.
Lastly, focus on self-improvement by dedicating time each week to learning. Read books, listen to podcasts, or watch videos that inspire growth. Remember, continual learning is key to change and can often be done using free resources online.
By implementing these ideas, you can create an environment that supports your personal and professional growth without spending lots of money or time. Focus on the new you and let go of past perceptions.
