If You Want to Be Exceptional…

Summary

• If you want to be exceptional, understand that you will be the exception. You won’t be like everyone else.
• Being different can make you feel lonely and that’s normal. It’s in our DNA to want to fit in with others.
• Shame can feel very real because, in the past, being excluded from the group could mean danger or less chance of survival.
• You're not truly out of one group or in another; you're in a transition phase between groups.
• During this lonely chapter, leverage the time you have to do a disproportionate amount of work. Less distractions mean more focus on your goals.

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How To Take Action

I would suggest implementing these strategies to help you grow personally and professionally while keeping costs low and value high.

1. Embrace Being Different
Understand that being exceptional means you won't fit in with the majority. Accept this and use it to your advantage. This might feel lonely, but it’s normal and part of the journey.

2. Leverage Your Time Efficiently
During this phase, you'll have fewer distractions. Use this to focus on your goals. Allocate specific times for learning or working on your projects.

3. Surround Yourself Virtually with Like-minded People
Even if you're feeling isolated, you can connect with others online. Join forums, attend webinars, or follow people who inspire you.

4. Reflect and Plan
Spend some time reflecting on your goals and planning the steps you need to achieve them. Journaling or mind-mapping can be a low-cost way to stay organized and motivated.

5. Focus on Learning and Improvement
Use free or low-cost resources to enhance your skills. There are plenty of online courses, YouTube tutorials, and eBooks available that can provide high-value knowledge without breaking the bank.

6. Develop a Routine
Create a daily routine that keeps you on track. Include activities that contribute to your growth like reading, exercising, or working on a side project.

7. Celebrate Small Wins
Recognize and celebrate your small achievements. This will keep you motivated and remind you that you’re making progress, even if it feels slow.

Following these steps will help you make the most of your time, reduce feelings of loneliness, and stay focused on your goals. It’s about turning your unique journey into an advantage.