How to Use Dating Apps
Summary
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Talking to people you don't know is a valuable skill. Just like in sales or business, getting good at this takes practice.
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I learned that dating can be a game of numbers, similar to sales. The more you engage, the better your chances, just like setting appointments and making sales.
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I used my lunch breaks to practice by spending 45 minutes each day looking for potential dates. This helped me improve my communication skills.
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Approaching dating as a way to improve conversational skills helped me become a better talker, which is a skill many people lack.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest implementing the practice of talking to more people you don't know. Start small. Use daily moments, like your lunch break, to strike up conversations with strangers. It could be as simple as saying hi to someone new each day. This helps improve communication skills, valuable in both personal and business settings.
Approach these interactions like a numbers game, just like in sales or dating. The more you engage, the better you become. This is low-cost and high-value, improving your comfort with new people over time. Make it a habit, even if it’s just for a few minutes daily.
A good way of doing this could be practicing during specific times, like your commute or while waiting in line. Use these moments to observe and look for opportunities to engage in small talk. It’s about practicing conversational skills consistently.
Lastly, take these interactions as learning experiences. Reflect on what worked and what didn’t. This self-review can make you a better talker and help you develop the confidence to connect with others effectively. It’s all about progress, not perfection!
