From arrested 6 times to CEO of a $100,000,000 Portfolio
Summary
- I learned the hard way that reckless behavior and a desire for acceptance can lead to serious consequences, like my multiple arrests.
- Experiencing a transformation from being ignored to suddenly desired in high school, I became addicted to the feeling of being valued by others.
- I realized after a serious talk with my dad, who expressed fear for my life, that my actions were selfish and could lead to a destructive future.
- This wake-up call pushed me into self-development. I started focusing on fitness, improving my grades, and distancing myself from friends who partied too much.
- Embracing loneliness was a part of my journey; it was necessary for personal growth even though it was against the norm.
- I moved into my own apartment to create an environment conducive to self-improvement and to avoid the constant influence of partying peers.
- The fear of missing out on my potential future self drove me to work hard and learn about business and self-development, aiming to achieve more by 30 than others by 40.
- My self-realization was that no one else can change my life for me. My family also made it clear they wouldn't enable my destructive behavior.
- I learned to take complete responsibility for my actions and future, recognizing that my past does not have to define me.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest starting by taking a serious look at your life, just like I did when my dad said he was scared for me. If you see parts of your life that are hurting you, make a plan to change them. Try to focus on things that make you stronger, smarter, or healthier. Here's how:
First, make your health a priority. Like when I focused on fitness, find a way to get more active. It could be as simple as walking more or trying out a new sport that you like.
Second, think about who you spend time with. Are your friends helping you grow or holding you back? If they're more into partying than building their future, it might be time to find new friends who share your goals.
If you want to get better at school or your job, try setting aside a little time each day to learn something new. This could mean reading a book about business or watching videos to improve a skill.
Remember, it's okay to be alone sometimes. Loneliness can be tough, but it can also help you grow. You might even consider creating a space of your own, like when I moved into my own apartment. A quiet place can help you think and work without distractions.
Lastly, know that your past doesn't have to control your future. Take full responsibility for your actions and believe that you can change your life. Nobody else can do that for you. It's all up to you! Just start with small steps, and don't be afraid to work hard for the life you want.
Quotes
"Nobody's coming to save you"
– Leila Hormozi
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"I'm just really afraid you're going to die"
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"What's gonna happen if you continue for the next five years to do that"
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"If you want to be unlike everyone else, you can't do what they're doing"
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"I realized I need to do something"
– Leila Hormozi
