Do You Look Up to Your Friends?

Summary

• Surround yourself with people who inspire you and who you want to be like. This will help you grow and reach your goals.
• Don't stay around people just because it's comfortable. Even if your friends or family are nice, they might not be the best influence if they don't inspire you.
• Reflect on whether the people you are surrounded by are genuinely motivating you or if you're just sticking around to feel comfortable.
• It's important to be honest with yourself. Ask if you're living the life you want or if you are just trying to be liked and understood by others.
• Recognize when your desire to fit in is stopping you from achieving your true potential and adjust your circle accordingly.

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How To Take Action

I would suggest implementing the idea of surrounding yourself with inspiring people. Start by identifying individuals in your life who motivate and challenge you. It's like choosing friends who make you want to be better. Think about people you admire and ask yourself why. This will help you figure out who can support your growth.

A good way of doing this is by reflecting on your current relationships. Take some time to evaluate if the people around you are truly inspiring or if you're just staying with them because it feels safe. It's important to be honest with yourself about this. Write a list of people who make you feel energized and those who don’t.

Once you know who inspires you, try to spend more time with them. This doesn’t mean you have to cut off everyone else, but seek to create a balanced environment that promotes your growth. You could join groups or clubs related to your interests or follow thought leaders on social media to fill your feed with positive influences.

Finally, be mindful of your desire to fit in. Understand that sometimes being liked and understood might hold you back. This awareness will help you make choices that align more with your true self. Stick with people who make you feel empowered to chase your goals, even if it means stepping out of your comfort zone.