Summary I believe loyalty is about what people do when nobody's watching. It's less about actions taken in front of you and more about what happens behind your back. To truly know if someone is loyal, consider what they would do if given the opportunity to be disloyal—like a husband faced with temptation, or an…
Summary Picking the right spouse is the most crucial decision you'll ever make. Get it right, and life can be fantastic; get it wrong, and it can be a disaster. I've had the right partner for 68 years, and we've been a great team together. Research shows that having a good relationship with your spouse…
Summary I went on about 60 dates before meeting the right person. It can be overwhelming, but persistence is key. Think of it like a numbers game similar to sales. I used my lunch breaks to go on dates. It was a lot of time and effort, but worth it in the end. Dating apps…
Summary Communication is key in maintaining both business and personal relationships. Be clear about your needs and listen to those of your partner. Accept that there are different seasons in life where priorities may shift, like focusing on work or personal projects. It's okay to adjust expectations accordingly. If you're feeling distant from your partner,…
Summary A key rule my husband Alex and I follow is to never let anything come between us. This means addressing any personal conflicts right away. If we have a disagreement or argument, we commit to resolving it before engaging in any work meetings or interactions with others. We prioritize taking the time needed—be it…
Summary In a relationship, what you tolerate teaches your partner what is acceptable. Actions speak louder than words. If your partner stops putting in effort, like going on dates, and you don't address it, you are showing with your actions that it's okay. Instead of dragging out conversations about what is wrong, focus on what…
Summary It's challenging when people get upset over things beyond our control, especially when we sacrifice so much for them. Even billionaires have bad days and breakdowns, reminding us that money doesn't solve all problems. A friend worth $3 billion expressed gratitude for having someone to confide in during tough times. Building strong relationships is…
Summary I believe it's unfair for one person to always pay for dates. In my experience, I've split the cost by taking turns paying, even as early as high school. Although it may not be a common practice, it's how I prefer to handle dating expenses. To me, sharing the financial responsibility shows consideration and…
Summary I learned that respect is the foundation of a strong relationship, more so than love. This means valuing the other person's opinion and contributions. Early in relationships, it's important to communicate openly and let the other person know that their opinions matter. Asking for their input fosters a collaborative environment. I discovered that personal…
Summary I read "Mating in Captivity" and found it to be one of the best books on relationships. While there's some odd content in it that I don't endorse, it provided valuable insights on distance and closeness in relationships. The idea is that being too close to someone can make the relationship feel like siblings,…