Summary I’ve learned that spending enough time with someone can make you love them, even if it doesn’t make sense at first. Studies show that love is mostly built by the amount of time you spend together, not by waiting for a magical or special moment. Instead of looking for just a spouse or getting…
Summary I learned that I don’t want to be with someone just because they have money or can take care of me. If I want a certain lifestyle or security, I decided it's best to work hard to become that person myself, instead of looking for someone else to provide it. I believe relationships should…
Summary I believe it's powerful to be unapologetically yourself, just like Alex is. When you show who you really are, it helps people know the real you from the very beginning. I learned that honesty, even when it feels awkward or uncomfortable, builds real trust in relationships. Alex was open about his habits and his…
Summary I believe the best way to know how someone will act in the future is to look at how they've acted in the past. If someone has cheated or been untrustworthy before, it's likely they'll do it again. On the other hand, if someone has always been loyal and respectful, they're more likely to…
Summary I learned that real chemistry doesn't always feel like fireworks right away; sometimes, it's more about feeling truly interested in someone as a person. After spending over four hours just talking and walking, I realized that deep, meaningful conversation can be a strong foundation for any relationship, whether it’s romantic or a friendship. Both…
Summary When I get into a fight with my spouse, I notice that the angrier one person gets, the other tends to calm down to help regulate the situation. If my spouse is upset because I made a mistake, like forgetting a dinner reservation, and they express their frustration, I can take responsibility instead of…
Summary I judge a great friend by how they react when I win. If they celebrate my success, I know they're real friends. Real friends truly want me to win and succeed in life, and that support is a rare thing to find. Once I started experiencing wins, I realized that real friends are much…
Summary I learned that clear communication is really important, especially when asking someone for something specific. I need to make sure they understand exactly what I want, not just send them a picture and hope they get it. When I sent a picture of a fake, plastic diamond necklace from Etsy, I should have explained…
Summary I believe that when I put in extra effort for others, that same level of energy comes back to me. When I was a personal trainer, I learned that it's important to care about my clients beyond just the workouts and diet plans. I asked myself questions like: What is going on in my…
Summary Sometimes, being flexible and understanding can make a huge impact on someone's life. The story of how Disney handled a grieving widow's situation is a perfect example of this. When something bad happens, it can also be an opportunity to create an amazing moment. Going beyond what's expected can turn someone's day around and…