Advice For 20-Year-Old Me
Summary
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If you lack confidence, build evidence. Start small and prove to yourself that you can do it. Over time, these small wins build up your confidence.
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Trying to impress fewer people makes you more impressive. Focus on being yourself rather than constantly seeking approval from others.
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You can learn anything if you're willing to look dumb at first. Embrace being a beginner and don't worry about what others think.
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Surround yourself with ambitious people. They will push you to aim higher and achieve more.
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Match or exceed the ambition of those around you. Use their drive to fuel your own ambition.
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Keep learning no matter what. Even if you start behind, staying committed to learning makes you hard to beat.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest implementing a few key strategies to boost confidence and personal growth. Start by setting small, achievable goals. Each time you complete a task, no matter how tiny it seems, you’re building evidence that you can do what you set out to accomplish. These small wins add up and build your confidence over time.
A good way of gaining true self-assurance is by focusing inward rather than outward. Instead of trying to impress people, be authentic. This genuine approach often makes you more impressive and content with who you are.
If you're starting something new, embrace the beginner stage and don’t stress about making mistakes. Looking "dumb" is part of the learning process. The sooner you accept this, the faster you'll grow and learn new skills—anything is possible when you keep trying.
Seek out ambitious individuals to surround yourself with. Their drive will inspire you and push you to elevate your own goals. Don’t shy away from their challenges; rise to meet them, if not exceed them.
Finally, never stop learning. Commit to constant development and education. Even if you're starting behind the curve, persistence in learning will make you tough to beat. Keep honing your skills, and you’ll see significant personal and professional growth over time.
